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This might be helpful:
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Flaming is the act of sending or posting messages that are deliberately hostile and insulting, usually in the social context of a discussion board on the Internet. Such messages are called flames, and are sometimes posted in response to flamebait. <snippet> Flamers usually call their flames justified attacks.
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Similarly, a normal, non-flame message may have elements of a flame -- it may be hostile, for example -- but it is not a flame if it is seriously intended to advance the discussion.

This is from Wiki and is in not comprehensive.
And a reminder from me to myself:
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A common way to start any kind of flaming is mini-modding. Mini-modding is the practice of posting authoritatively as though one holds the power of a message board or system moderator, when he or she is not.

That'll larn me Wink Please <fwap> if i'm out of line.
 
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Interesting. According to this, at least two people can be accused of flaming in a certain thread. Excluding me.

And yeah, mini-modding seems not a good idea.

Though I'm thinking if we all posted as if we held responsibility over a message board maybe we'd think twice before posting anything dubious.

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Originally posted by When_lingers:
And where does condescension from the mods fit in? I think the question that BtB was asking is a very valid one. One that a dictionary definition does really answer. It would be interesting to know where OUR moderators draw the line. Panda is still among us even though he consistently starts trollish topics, and makes flame baiting comments. I don't care one bit that he's still around, even if he pushes my buttons, but since his behaviour is tolerated, I think it would be interesting to have some idea of what our moderators are basing their moderation on. I don't see how that is such an offensive question. If you are fed up with these topics, then don't feel forced to answer, Amy. There are two other mods here, and I think it would be interesting to have some real feedback.



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eh? She asked a question, and I answered it. We define "flaming" as everyone else in the world does. Our definition is no different.

If you would like to know what we base our moderation on, that's a completely different question. Our rules are clearly stated in the FAQs. That's what we base our moderation on.
 
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The definition may not be different, but the interpretations may very well be. One person's flame is another person's valid criticism, and vice versa. And while the rules are clearly stated in the FAQ, they are also up to interpretation to some extent.


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*Flaming is not allowed. This includes flaming Todd McFarlane and George Lucas. We have a Flame Wars area where that is allowed. Even though it's allowed in Flame Wars, remember that if you misuse that privilege, people will most likely stop listening to you in general.
-Please remember that debates can get heated and that opinions about a stance in a debate and opinions about the person proposing the stance are different things.



Okay. Which parts are unclear? When GMZoe developed this, I thought it was pretty straightforward. When we see flaming outside of Flame Wars, we ask people to either take it to Flame Wars, or to stop. I'm not sure which parts people are having difficulties with?
 
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In all honesty, though, our mods and Honorary mods have always used their discretion wisely and have had infinate patience with dolts who ask whether Neil reads the boards. I've never seen anyone banned, suspended, or even warned without very good reasons, usually directly from the FAQ.

ETA: MissTapata, simultaneous posting. I'll still leave the post, but this is not a direct reaction to yours.


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Taking the examples on Flame Wars at the moment, certain observations on Big Ass Panda and his posting behaviour can in my opinion be seen as "opinions about a stance in a debate" (if that stance includes such things as tone and rhetoric means used), whereas Panda explicitly stated that he interpreted these observations as a flame.

When a poster's way of arguing is criticised, is that opinions about the person or not? (Honest question here.)


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Okay, well, take an example.
If someone seems to be provocative and you say:

"You're just trying to provoke everyone, as usual."
or
"You're just trying to provoke everyone in the dumbest way possible, as usual."
I'm guessing it wouldn't receive a warning as a flame. But it is aggressive and critical and derisive and doesn't really add anything to the subject matter at hand. So it *should* be a flame according to the dictionary definition.

I know this may seem like nitpicking, but that's kind of what I'm thinking about.


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I'm sorry - I haven't been reading Flame Wars lately. I don't really know what posts you're refering to.

Are you asking if a person's criticism about an arguing style is an opinion of a person arguing or not? You'd have to ask the person who made the criticism, I'd imagine.
 
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Originally posted by Babylon the Bride:
"You're just trying to provoke everyone, as usual."
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"You're just trying to provoke everyone in the dumbest way possible, as usual."


If a mod popped in and saw the 2nd example, we'd probably take it as a sign of further nastiness to come and remind folks involved about the existance of Flame Wars, and to please go there.
 
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Thanks.


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Um...last question from my part (and I guess kind of what Thirith is asking...)

Sometimes people post stuff that just sounds idiotic. Are you allowed to say that, as long as you don't criticise the person himself?

Like "I've never read anything about the subject that sounded that childish and arrogant and that displayed such a complete lack of common sense."

ETA: I just realised all this sounds like I'm looking for a guideline on how to get at people without getting sanctioned. It's actually more that knowing the boundaries helps so I don't come too close but can still be clear if I object to someone's behaviour or posts.


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Sometimes people post stuff that just sounds idiotic. Are you allowed to say that, as long as you don't criticise the person himself?



If you are outside of Flame Wars, and if you feel strongly enough that you need to express to a poster that you think their post is idiotic, you may want to provide some reasons why their post is idiotic if indeed you are going to tell them their post is idiotic.
 
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Originally posted by When_lingers:
It's just that typical fundy behaviour, scream "I'm offended" really loudly at anything you don't agree with, so that their BS gets overlooked and they make the other person look as if they have said or done something outrageous.


Jeremy, just saw this. You seem to forget that Dweller is a Fundamentalist, and really, he's never behaved like that. You might want to revise your generalization.
 
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I'm sure that was meant in the (technically incorrect) colloquial sense of the word, Amy. With no disrespect intended.


~You are a *Taverner*.
Sometimes patrons want to go where everybody knows their names, though it helps 
when half of them are named John. When people want to celebrate, or commiserate, 
they gather to your establishment. You provide the atmosphere, the warmth, rum, 
and even an ear to bend. Did I mention the rum? Years before the language will be 
mangled with terms like facilitator and networking and interpersonal communication,
you've overseen it all, and broken up a few bar fights, to boot.~
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The other thing to remember is the mods aren't going to ban you on the first instance. If you've approached the line or even crossed it, and was never called on it, I for one would be very upset if you were banned the next time you crossed the line. The strikes only count and add up when you're aware that you have them. All of our mods have been very keen on this (that I'm aware of) and one usually knows where they stand with them in regards to any discipline.

And this has a pretty good description and discussion of flames:
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Ask yourself the following questions before posting a flame:

Will you later regret posting this?

Are you sure you haven't misinterpreted what the previous poster wrote?

Was the person you are responding to trying to get attention or provoke angry responses from others? (This is usually called "trolling".)

Would you be insulted if someone responded to one of your own postings in this way?

Is this a personal matter in which other readers will have little or no interest?

Should you resolve the issue by personal email instead of posting?


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Originally posted by When_lingers:
It's just that typical fundy behaviour, scream "I'm offended" really loudly at anything you don't agree with, so that their BS gets overlooked and they make the other person look as if they have said or done something outrageous.


Jeremy, just saw this. You seem to forget that Dweller is a Fundamentalist, and really, he's never behaved like that. You might want to revise your generalization.


fundamentalism n. - 1. strict maintainance of traditional Protestant beliefs. 2. strict maintainance of ancient or fundamental doctrines of any religion. (Oxford)

And recently of course, due to it being more widepread in use given current events, has come to mean any strictly held belief, including politcal, philosophical and economic.



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Babs, I totally appreciate what you're trying to figure out, and why, but in a lot of instances it is subjective...however, I can tell you with all certainty that you have not flamed Panda.


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(Hehe, that's funny, coz in the Spanish Royal Academy of Language's dictionary, the first definition corresponds to Islamic fundamentalism, the second to Protestantism (although it'Protestantism is not mentioned as such), and the third one to general stuff. Interesting.)
 
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