This is for all you Brits out there...

Graf and I were watching a comedian by the name of Russel Brand, funny guy btw.. he mentioned an act called "seagulling".. what is it exactly and has anyone ever done it?

It's a form of sexual assault - non-con bukkake, I believe.

sounds gross

from the urban dictionary

http://www.urbandictionary.com....php?term=seagulling

yai it sounds seriously rude..

just wanted to know if people really do that...

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Originally posted by Masque:
yai it sounds seriously rude..

I don't mind rude - hell, in the right circumstances, rude is great - but this does actually qualify as assault.

yeah, the whole "unwilling" bit sorta changes it...

mmm, non-consenting ANYTHING is beyond rude and into rape/assault territory.

it's not necessarily strangers in the street - plenty of people do it as a joke to their partner.

Doesn't anybody just get naked and sweaty anymore?

oh, that is SO passe!

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Originally posted by Domitella:
it's not necessarily strangers in the street - plenty of people do it as a joke to their partner.

doesn't that count as assault any more? just because you know someone and have sex with them willingly sometimes, doesn't mean they can't force you.

Yup, it could be your husband of 60 years -unwanted sexual practices forced on someone else are sexual assault according to the law.

My first reaction was to not believe such a thing actually happene din reality, but then I remembered a friend's younger brother told us about this girl in his class who'd been recorded by her own boyfriend while she was giving him a blowjob and then put it up on the internet tho show his friends and classmates, which were also her friends and classmates obviously. They were 17-18 years old.

So, yeah. World is full of cunts.

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Originally posted by Limertilly:

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Originally posted by Domitella:
it's not necessarily strangers in the street - plenty of people do it as a joke to their partner.

doesn't that count as assault any more? just because you know someone and have sex with them willingly sometimes, doesn't mean they can't force you.

It depends. Imagine you're giving a new lover a BJ and then, kind of as a joke, or an experiment or because in your lust you thought it was a good idea for about ten seconds, you stick your finger up and grope for his g-spot (a-spot?).
There's a chance he'll go "wheeee!" but an equal chance that he'll have an "argh!" moment and tell you to ask him next time.
Moral of the story: Sexual consent is a sticky topic.

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Originally posted by Limertilly:

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Originally posted by Domitella:
it's not necessarily strangers in the street - plenty of people do it as a joke to their partner.

doesn't that count as assault any more? just because you know someone and have sex with them willingly sometimes, doesn't mean they can't force you.

Limer,I am perfectly aware that you can still rape or assault someone in a relationship. I am not an idiot.

In this case it would depend entirely on their relationship and how the other person reacted. Try not to blanket-judge things.

ETA: that sounded harsher than I meant it, but really , you can't just assume it's assault. If you're doign the washing up and your boyfriend comes up behind you and grabs your tits it's different from if someone on the tube does it, but no one has given specific consent in either situation.

if someone i was seeing decided that it would be funny to cum all over my face without warning me or asking if i minded, i would in all likelihood find it extremely upsetting. doesn't matter how long i'd been with them. if they tried that sort of carry-on, there would be a swift disabling and a walking out on, probably. because i don't want anyone to do that to me.

so in my case, i would be angry, upset, and would feel, yes, violated.

maybe that makes me a delicate little flower. well, so the fuck what. someone doing something you don't like deserves to get told you don't like it. if that telling is done with a sharply raised knee, so much the better.

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someone doing something you don't like deserves to get told you don't like it.

absolutely, but if they'd not done it maliciously then I might mind, but I probably wouldn't.

That's all I'm saying - that it depends on the relationship. If someone didn't realise that would upset you, then it does suggest they didn't know you very well.

I can't imagine being angry (although I might make clear I don't want them to do it again), but some people might be. I never said they wouldn't, or shouldn't be. All I said was that you can't decide that every time it happens it's assault.

I never said you were not allowed to be upset - all I said was that you can't assume everyone would or should be.

I thought I was missing something until I read the other definitions... I was going by the first one (the friends hiding in the room and then coming all over you) and was wondering how in hell could that be sometimes not be regarded as assault...

I guess in that case it depends how they took it - I know plenty of people who'd take it as a gross joke, not as assault. Know your audience is the lesson with this.

Though, ewww. I can't imagine anyone actually enjoying being the surprise bukkakee.

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Originally posted by CatBlack:
sounds gross

from the urban dictionary

http://www.urbandictionary.com....php?term=seagulling

It's a general truth that any sexual act that appears in the Urban Dictionary has never actually happened.


Except in Japan.

Where they read the entry on Urban Dictionary and made another niche porn video.