Onions: would you mind reposting your rendang recipy in the i hate cooking thread?
I love Rendang and am terrible at making it...

yay. good for you

quote:

Originally posted by Tongster, the Good Twin:
Dear Alaura,

You're right, the high five wasn't well received. What else you got?

Love,

Chris

Dear Chris and Joc,

This notice is to inform you that any reference to post-orgasmic celebrations performed by myself and my partner are intended for entertainment purposes only and not recommended for use.

Love,
Alaura

Right, I'm not going to report here every time, but this one was too funny.

My neighbour got laid. I know because I heard her. She was crescendo-ing so loudly that Mr. Onions, who had been asleep, fell off the couch in panic.
"The cats! Something's wrong with the cats!", he shouted.

I laughed so hard I almost wet myself.

After Mr. Onions had recovered sufficiently, he picked his glasses up off the floor and put them back on his nose. Then he looked at me grimly.
"Revenge", he said.

Hmm. I think I shall bake my neighbour some cookies.

Its already half a year....and Im getting in the state that I want it...

First time I`ve been able to post in this thread and boy, is it a relief! After six months the drought is over...

Congratulations Miho! The relief is very well deserved i'm sure
Any chance that you and her/him could hit it of d'you think? like steady?

Early days Punky, early days. To be honest the only thing I felt the next day was sheer tiredness.. And no, that wasn`t post coital. I`m not used to sleeping in someone else`s bed, without my ear defenders and face mask... and without at least three pillows. I couldn`t sleep, so we talked all night.. and kissed intermittently until the sun rose the next day. She`s a single mum so her kid got up and came in. That was weird and I tried so hard to pretend I`d not been doing anything with his mum whilst she made toast. Then she went out and I helped the boy set up his train set (`cept we didn`t have enough straight bits of track. Always the way. Was the same when I was a kid). She came back and we had waffles before her ex came round to babysit. I was worried about his reaction, but the guy`s so laid back he could be comatose and Julia and I went out.

She explained to me that she doesn`t normally french in bars and now she wants to take things slowly. I wanted to be all noble, so I said okay and how I understood all the complications and that I was nervous about being a kid`s role model so we agreed on that. Now I`m wondering if I ought to have kept my doubts to myself `cos she was so cool to me this afternoon when we spoke. I had offered to take her out this evening, but she declined and said she`d be at the group`s Yule ritual this Sunday.

Now I`m thinking either she doesn`t trust her self with me or she thinks she was a fool for sleeping with me in the first place and wants a way out. I just wish I knew what to do.. Or what I wanted. I`ve wanted to settle down for so long now and now I don`t know if I`m ready. But she and I really connected, but does she understand what a big deal this is for me. I`m not a taking it slowly kind of person, when I want something or someone I go for it 100% or nothing. But I cannot be lonely again. I won`t. Not when I`ve finally met a girl I like. Life is so messy. I think I`m gonna hyperventilate or get really drunk. That helps.

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Oh lord! Sweetheart, i thought you said it was a relief! That sounds really complicated!
It's possible that you've made a bit of a gaffe in saying you feel nerbous about being a kids role model. She might have been sensitive about being a single-and-dating mom. However, if you two really hit it off, you can take it slow, and maybe have a "where do we go from here" talk when it turns out well.
Good luck!!!!

Oh it was a relief to finally get some. I was starting to think God wanted me to be celebate, but I`m wondering if this whole thread isn`t just a case of hoping the grass is greener on the other side of the fence when the truth is it`s just another set of problems. I have been told that I think about things way too much and wallow in introspection. See,I`d never have thought she might have been touchy about being a single mom. I suspect it was just because we`d barely known each other for a couple of hours before we made out. Maybe it was just lust, I don`t know, but I do like her and the boy`s nice enough. I just don`t think I`m mature enough to be a father figure. It`s a confidence thing. It`s a pity they don`t do `Dad` training at school.

good luck in any case, Miho

Whooooooo!!!Whooooooo!!!!! 7 times in 2 days & 7 hours!!!

Now has to wait 2 weeks *sigh* to get some more.


Miho, my sweetie has a 6 year old girl, whom he loves very much (but doesn't live with). He was very relieved to find out that I didn't want to replace her mom, or be competitive (for his love) with his daughter. He did mention wanting me to meet her, because he says he wants a positive female role model (apparently he doesn't consider the mother to be one) in her life. We've also talked about a future together. But I've let him bring all these topics up.

The only thing I can offer (which you've already done) is to be supportive and sympathetic. And you don't have to be a father figure, just a good, caring friend (which kids don't have enough of).

Good fortune to you.

oops...
I have no idea how this got posted on the wrong thread.
*remains coy in regards to gentlemanly activities.*

*pops in*

Howdy do!

Just had what might be the last of 2005 but it was awesome.
I will keep you posted.

Well, 2005 ended with a whimper of disappointment but 2006 started with a moan of ecstasy.

Word!

we went to bed at 12:05 on Jan. 1st, to actully sleep.

Dec. 31st, around 8:30pm, however, was remarkably nice.

Does anyone think it's weird that we're keeping up a running tally of these things?
Do your partners know?

i think it's weird but good. like mushroom pate.