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I need your advice / perspective / insight.

Awhile back i was looking for women with piercings and tattoos for the comic, i went through the softcore altporn site godsgirls. After going through the women for a while i saw one who is the prototype for 'my type' even moreso than Zenia(my only serious relationship) was.

Recently the godsgirls site twittered that this woman was just starting out on the site onhercam, basically a chat room and if you pay you can watch her masturbate or what ever you ask her to do. I went. I didn't pay to watch her masturbate because i went mostly to tell her she is gorgeous and to show support for her work -most altsites don't have may black women, or even part black-. So we talked a bit. I asked what she does when not doing the model thing (she does latex modeling too) and she said she loves to read. She talked about good books, books i haven't read that seem really intelligent. She talked about good, clever music.

We talked about her main job, she's a stripper, college, and my comic, her tattoos, my lack of tattoos, she smiled a lot and apologized when someone wanted the privite stuff and came back to chat when that was done. She makes me laugh but i think she is mostly just nice in hopes i buy time for her cam show. I added her on twitter, dev art and myspace, she didn't add me back except to myspace whree you have to :-(

I really like talking to her. She's moving to LA in a few months and i'm afraid i'm being stupid. She's only nice so I'll buy her time, right? It's stupid to try and hope for more, right? Also, her being in porn makes things weird, even if it is softcore -no sex just naked pics- but i'm still feeling awkward. But its stupid to think she'd be into me, huh?

It's stupid to think that she'd even consider seeing me when she moves out here, isn't it? I met her (online) last week and haven't been able to get her out of my head. I've been considering buying her time just so she'll talk to me. It's a good thing i don't have money, i think i'd be broke by now. Bleh. What do i do? I'm stupid, huh? Should i tell her i have a crush on her and ask what she thinks or just stop talking to her and accept that she only talks in hopes I'll buy her time? God, i hate this. It's been too long since i had a serious interest in a new person. Bleh. God. Grrr. Argh. Help. Destroy my fantasy, please. Before this goes too far.
 
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yup fantasy destroyer here!

she isn't interested in you only being nice to get you to pay her money....thats her job

get over it and get out and do something new instead, join an amatuer writers group or some other activity where you meet and interact with new people.
 
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You're the guy who said you are crushing on her BECAUSE you can make her anything you want to in your fantasies.

Face it, if she's not adding you, she's not interested. As long as you're talking to her, of course she won't coldshoulder you because you're a potential paying client.

But there is absolutely no sign that you can expect more of her than pleasant conversations.


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Gotta side with the ladies here. An opportunity for conversation only from the sounds of things.


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Having known many strippers in my life (outside of their work, not because of it), yeah. She's going to milk as much money as possible out of you.


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yup fantasy destroyer here!

she isn't interested in you only being nice to get you to pay her money....thats her job

get over it and get out and do something new instead, join an amatuer writers group or some other activity where you meet and interact with new people.


Yeah thats what i figured.
 
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The woman manipulates men into giving her money for a living. She secretly despises them. She is a lie wrapped in a sexy package. You are welcome to bite into that shit taco, but don't complain how it tastes after. Wink


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Move on Eldi.
You're in love with a fantasy, not a woman.


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Move on Eldi.
You're in love with a fantasy, not a woman.


I'm not "In love" with her, but yeah. I think she could tell I was starting to like her. Whether by design or by coincedence she actually asked me to find her the name of hte band who sings "Money! That's What I Want" on a movie soundtrack.
 
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oh god! is it bad that i now have the words "i have the hots for a porn star stripper" in my head along with the tune for "i lost my heart to a starship trooper"?

sorry eldi!


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ach, I don't think I can say anything new here, but *hugs* for Eldi.



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oh god! is it bad that i now have the words "i have the hots for a porn star stripper" in my head along with the tune for "i lost my heart to a starship trooper"?

sorry eldi!


haha sounds like a funny song.
 
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Always good to have a hot stripper.


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Originally posted by Nemo888:
The woman manipulates men into giving her money for a living. She secretly despises them. She is a lie wrapped in a sexy package. You are welcome to bite into that shit taco, but don't complain how it tastes after. Wink

There seems to be quite a bit of hostility towards this woman in this post, Nemo.


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She is just doing her job. No more and no less than that. As long as you recognize that and that any feelings you might have towards this woman are not returned beyond simple professional courtesy, then that is that really.

I think that you have other, more constructive matters to concern yourself with now. But I have a feeling I am not telling you anything you don't already know. Take care, man.


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Always good to have a hot stripper.


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She is just doing her job. No more and no less than that. As long as you recognize that and that any feelings you might have towards this woman are not returned beyond simple professional courtesy, then that is that really.

I think that you have other, more constructive matters to concern yourself with now. But I have a feeling I am not telling you anything you don't already know. Take care, man.


Ditto, Mythos said it much better than I could.


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Originally posted by Nemo888:
The woman manipulates men into giving her money for a living. She secretly despises them. She is a lie wrapped in a sexy package. You are welcome to bite into that shit taco, but don't complain how it tastes after. Wink

There seems to be quite a bit of hostility towards this woman in this post, Nemo.


I was a Medic in the military. Often soldiers would need my services after being used by this type of professional. Herpes, chlamydia, gonorrhea, all given to my troops without informed consent. (The Military Police had to finally start charging some of them with assault to stop the epidemic)Often with the added fuck you of full credit cards and thousands of dollars lost. These women find it very easy to cheat a lonely 18 year old out of their money and innocence. So many times I had to hear, "She said she loved me." Using your sex and lying to trick lonely teenage boys far from home is like mugging a retard.


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I think if the lonely teenage boys are old enough to become soldiers, then they are old enough to take some responsibility for their own health and wellbeing, and not place that responsibility on the shoulders of a sex worker, whom they were using (particularly since it is likely there will be nobody looking out for her health and wellbeing). Also, where would a sex worker who had herpes, gonorrhea, chlamydia catch those conditions from? Could it possibly have been from... her clients, perhaps? Some of those lonely 18-year old, innocent boys?


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