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Yes, you should stop calling. Ball is now firmly in her court. As for the rest...*hugs* I hope it works out.


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I'd actually say call her, leave a more specific message. I'd do this on the principle that when you act confidently, people think there's somethin to it!

Plan the message so as not to plead, but invite her out one more time, to something specific that you bonded over.

In that situation I've said things like "I'm calling to see if you want to go to X on friday. I've got a spare ticket if you want it. Let me know either way, cos i've got some friends who are keen."

People are insecure and wierd and need to get over it. Blow through the cobwebs.


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umm...if you do call back, wait a little longer. maybe early next week or something.


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Waited all day for this conversation and it's sinking fast. Mayday mayday!


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*sounds klaxons*

Abandon ship!


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He threw a life preserver. I think he is sniffing out whether I would be up for a date tonight. But I'm not sure if he's looking for sex or the possibility of more dates...


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um. this from the girl who did not sleep with a guy until she married one. and then only that one. but, uh...why shouldn't you go for it either way?


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I don't want to be someone's coyote ugly. I would prefer to have mutiple dates before they make the mistake of sleeping with me.

Might not matter. I think he called the date off. He's going to call later and if it's not too late we might see if it's worth going out. Maybe a late movie or something.


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quote:
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I don't want to be someone's coyote ugly. I would prefer to have mutiple dates before they make the mistake of sleeping with me.


aww, why do you say it is a mistake to sleep with you?
 
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Because I'm freakin nuts!


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dates are supposed to be for finding out what your interest level is. so go out on a date, why the hell not. it'll be fun, if nothing else. if he wants to jump right into bed, in the immortal words of Nancy Reagan, just say no.


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Should I tell him Nancy Reagan told me to say it?
...It would be a great way to get rid of him if the date was going bad...


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Because I'm freakin nuts!


that can make it better sometimes...



(you probably didn't mean that kind of nuts. Sorry)
 
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Ha! If I were I wouldn't have a reserved space over in the "wish for sex" thread...


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re: the 'just go on the date thing', just a small nitpick...if I went on dates regularly as a case of attrition and accustomization (which I can see the value of), I'd be broke within days. So I have to be selective, or, as is the case right now, not go on any.
 
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Where are/would you take them? First dates for me are usually coffee/drinks. They end up fairly cheap. I spend much more when I'm out with my friends. I'm not one for fancy dinners when I'm just trying to get to know someone.


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Coffee/drinks for me too, usually, but even then I have to be sparing in what I buy. So I look - and am - a cheapskate, I guess.
 
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somewhere with music and booze. preferably cocktails. I usually go somewhere on a high street or something, cos it gives you options depending on how the night goes, food, booze, coffee, film, popcorn, kebabs...

Lunch dates are a no-no early on. they're way too restrictive.


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yes, Batty, you should tell him that Nancy Reagan told you to say it. if he's worth five minutes of your time, he'll find it amusing"”or at least won't think badly of you. alternately, you could tell him some crazy bitch you know on the intarwebzorz told you to say it. Big Grin

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Coffee/drinks for me too, usually, but even then I have to be sparing in what I buy. So I look - and am - a cheapskate, I guess.


me, too! solidarity, baby!


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Coffee/drinks for me too, usually, but even then I have to be sparing in what I buy. So I look - and am - a cheapskate, I guess.


It's not because you are a cheapskate, it's because you live in London. Razz
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