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Originally posted by McApathy:
yes, Batty, you should tell him that Nancy Reagan told you to say it. if he's worth five minutes of your time, he'll find it amusing"”or at least won't think badly of you. alternately, you could tell him some crazy bitch you know on the intarwebzorz told you to say it.

I don't know what is going on. We talked the other night and were setting up something for that night (my date ideas reported below) but by the time I was doing getting ready and he was done at the gym it was after 9 and he said he had to work the next morning. We've exchanged texts two nights in a row after that conversation, but I'm pretty much thinking he's lost interest already. No more effort has been made to set up a meet, and I jokingly said he had my number if he wanted to call and talk rather than text sometime and that was last night's conversation ender.
Sigh. Oh well.
My perfect first date is the non-date. Jeans and sneakers, and walk around the park down by the river or something. That way if things go well while you are talking you can cross over the bridge and take in a movie and dinner, or you can just say "Well. See ya!" if they don't. Kind of hard to come up with date ideas when I don't do bars or clubs. I like this one,though.
Shutting down my YP account, and I'm being 'stalked' by some crazy people on okcupid so I haven't checked in in a few days. Might close that one too.

he = twat

We are talking again! He apparently works an even crazier schedule than I do! Possible something this weekend, he told me I can have whatever I want for the first date. I told him I want a pony.

he /= twat

hahaha. Hope it works out well for you.

As awful as I have felt the last few days I needed a good laugh. Share with me.
A gentleman starting mailing me yesterday morning (I joined OKCupid again. Got bored.) In his profile he is single and looking for a serious relationship. I responded to his mails, but wasn't actively leading the conversation. Wasn't really interested, but I feel bad when I ignore people. This morning I got an message from him stating it was his fiance talking, to leave him alone because he has a family. I find this immensely funny. She was mad at me because he has an account set up with a dating service. I can't stop giggling now.

Now there is a marriage that's off on a good start!

Homewrecker!

That reminds me *goes to delete her okcupid account*

That thing was nothing but creepiness and trouble!

I hate it when women are mad at the Other Women (or potential OW) instead of at the adulterous creep, when the Other Women are also being deceived!

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Originally posted by Hive:
I hate it when women are mad at the Other Women (or potential OW) instead of at the adulterous creep, when the Other Women are also being deceived!

*peers*

why do i keep agreeing with you hive, it's starting to scare me!

If hubby played around, it would be hubby i killed *nods*.

Perhaps there's *some* women who assume vile temptress first, and disloyal husband second?

vile temptress, who persuaded poor vulnerable husband to sign upto a dating site.

in that case, he's too damn dumb to be married to me!

edit : of course there are some women who'd assume that, i'm not one of them.

I think for some women it's easier to blame the other woman, otherwise it would mean they have to address the fact that their husband is a lying creep and deal with it somehow, which overturns your entire partnership.

Yeah that's true. It's a mental defence.

I created a profile on a dating website.

...

SOMEBODY GET THAT BODYSNATCHER OUT OF MY HEAD !

NOW !!!

*runs to hide*

Let's see Secc!

Has anyone tried Geek2Geek?

Yep - far too few people on it - waste of time.

All of OKCupid's 'quiver' matches are all inappropriate for me - they're either vegan, explicitly not interested in a relationship, or clearlyfar too attractive, or active, or thoughtful for me to keep up with.