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Originally posted by punkrockgirl:
i really take exception to this post...i KNOW that i don't have AIDS...nor do any of my former partners. and i don't need a test to prove that.
i have never had a partner who has slept with more than four people. and all of them have known their other sexual partners for a long time and are still in contact with them. so if anyone had developed any kind of disease of any sort that was communicable...it would have been reported to their former partners...because everyone with whom i associate is an honest, responsible adult. that's why i can trust them. the people you cannot trust are one-night stands with whom you don't have contact before or after sex...and since i have never engaged in a one-night-stand and never will...i don't feel the need to worry about it.
and btw...the reason i responded is that i find your statement about people with "my mentality" to be offensive. and since my threads and posts will continue to exist on this board, i will voice my sentiments on the matter.



Punkgirlthattimeforgot- Since you say are in the mental health profession, look at your statements and then look up "magical thinking".

Because that's what it is. No quantifiable proof, you 'just know'.

And you're going to respond because that's just what you do. No need to come up with a "defense"
defense.

BTW, I don't believe you were banned under your past name, just given a first warning. So why you feel the need to change names to post is a puzzler.


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someone be changing names and identities on us?


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that is just soooooo wrong.


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side-saddle she sat, on a big painted bat,
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*petulant swipe*
patronising bag


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*petulant swipe*
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That's patronising old bag to you, sonny.


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side-saddle she sat, on a big painted bat,
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patronising old hag, you say?


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haggis you say?


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went the Beezee bold as brass,
side-saddle she sat, on a big painted bat,
shooting moonbeams out of her a(censored)e.”
~Joe
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Isn't sanity really just a one trick pony, anyway? I mean, all you get is one trick, rational thinking! But when you're good and crazy…ooh ooh ooh…the sky's the limit!



 
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stupid and deaf.

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Pissy old bear


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shooting moonbeams out of her a(censored)e.”
~Joe
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Isn't sanity really just a one trick pony, anyway? I mean, all you get is one trick, rational thinking! But when you're good and crazy…ooh ooh ooh…the sky's the limit!



 
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^^ I saw BeeZee's name on the menu page for this thread and I thought I was gonna hear some gossip.

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punkrockgirl, before you get all pissy, consider this:

So, you've never had a partner that had slept with more than four other people? Well, let's see here. Let's say you've slept with 2 people. Those 2 people have each slept with 2 other people. You've now been exposed to six people's potential diseases. And, likely, each of those partners had slept with a couple other people, bringing the number to 14. And the chain keeps going, back and back and back unless there are people in the chain who got together when they were both virgins. Even by only having maybe 2 partners, ever, unless each of those partners were virgins you have now been exposed to who knows how many other people's sexual history. I'm sorry if you're offended by the FACTS presented by myself or Crow Girl, but it is a FACT that there is NO way to know that you have not been exposed to an STD unless you are tested or have NEVER had any type of bodily fluid exposure (blood, saliva, semen, whatever) to another person (which is highly unlikely. Mono doesn't go around the volleyball team because all the girls are having sex with each other [shut up, Tongster Wink]; it happens because they are all drinking out of each other's water bottles.)

I understand you not feeling the need to worry about it, and you're probably fine. I've never been tested for HIV or AIDS either. But I don't go around claiming to KNOW that I don't have it. I just feel my risk is low. You'll need to be able to distinguish between feelings and facts, if want to have a good time posting on this board.


well...if i had AIDS...i would be feeling some kind of an effect on my health by now, wouldn't you think? full-blown AIDS is different from HIV. but okay...i HIGHLY DOUBT that i have either.


that's just the point i was making. you can't KNOW. HIV doesn't always make itself known immediately. it can take many months for symptoms to appear, and even then they can easily be mistaken as simple ailments in the early stages of the infection. i'm not saying that you are a threat to future partners, i'm just saying that the blind belief that you are safe from HIV just because you *think* you have absolute honesty with a potential partner is reckless. and i'm not posting this as a personal attack on you, if anything it is out of concern for you, and anyone who might be reading this that holds the same belief.


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...because everyone with whom i associate is an honest, responsible adult. that's why i can trust them. the people you cannot trust are one-night stands with whom you don't have contact before or after sex...

The difficulty is, people are... people. They are fallible. Someone with a reputation of being Mr or Ms Responsible might actually like to sweep any departures from this code of contact under the carpet and pretend they never happened. It's not unknown, or sadly even that unusual.

Anyone here is free to trust or not to trust their past, current and future partners, or not as they please. But to say that gives them any kind of guarantee is just not true. I'd go with what Crow Girl says - I'm posting here because I think there is some mistaken logic going on here, and I'm concerned that people protect themselves.


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i'm slightly peturbed that there's an equation between responsibility and not getting tested.

As others have said, sex isn't the only way to pick up STDs. There are all sorts of ways.


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