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I am pretty much always satisfied with the results and happy that he's happy, but I don't always take pleasure in it or really want to do it.

Complete ditto. I love it that he likes when I do it, but it doesn't stimulate me at all, and sometimes I'm working on him and I start getting kind of bored so (please forgive me, love) my mind starts to wander and I am planning out the rest of my day, or trying to remember the second verse of that song, or something else. Sigh, oral sex adhd.

Lately I have been turned off by "oh baby"-ing. When all a man will say is oh baby and never your name, or sexy talk, just "oh baby" over and over. Broken record.
 
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I don't mind tattoos much. The muscle line is a bit weird though. My one major turn-off is probably people doing things for someone as a favour, rather than because it's fun. It takes the fun out of it for the one receiving completely.

I have some tattoos so I am glad everyone doesn't hate them. I actually like them on men too.

Does doing something for someone mean in bed?


Yeah, stuff like blowjobs or handjobs, I don't understand how people couldn't enjoy giving them, even if they're not getting any direct pleasure. It just takes half the fun away if they're just doing it for the other person.


Ack! No, I LOVE giving them. It's creating pleasure in the other person. (Who is letting me know how much they like it.) There is also a sense of power.


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Ack! No, I LOVE giving them. It's creating pleasure in the other person. (Who is letting me know how much they like it.) There is also a sense of power.


I don't get that sense of power from it at all. I mean, I can see how you would, but it just doesn't do that for me.

and, like I said, I do like giving him pleasure. but sometimes...I'm tired. I have a small mouth (literally), and it hurts after a while. and, y'know, when you're getting excited by something else and all of a sudden, "gimme a blowjob"...it's not that appealing. when it's the right time/situation, I enjoy it. sometimes I initiate them without being asked to, so it's not like they're abhorrent. but I'm not always up for it, as it were.


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things that turn me off...

looking up at him during during sex to find him evaluating the room like he is trying to figure out how much paint he would need to re-do it.
 
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People who steep their tea too long! Hrmph! It's not THAT difficult to make a proper cuppa!
 
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CHEATING HUSBANDS!!!!!!


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oh hun!

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oh Bean. *hugs*


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Oh, Bean. *Hugs* - lots of them.


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Women that offer to pleasure you orally on the first date.
 
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Women that offer to pleasure you orally on the first date.


Why? I mean I guess it depends on the purpose of the date, but I'm still curious.


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dying one's hair because it's going grey. I understand that a lot of people have a lot of good reasons for doing it, and it's therefore not a deal-breaker, but I don't like it. (I would probably be more okay with it if I liked blondes instead of brunets.)


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Infidelity...oh, and insanity (the certifiable kind, not the general sort from which most of us suffer from time to time). And masochism.


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oh, I dunno. insanity could make things...interesting.


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ugh. agreed.

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And masochism.


oh, no...masochists are totally awesome.


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