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yep, i agree with tis on this. handcuffs are simply more practical than a tie, which always comes loose in the least appropriate moment. *grumbles*



tsk. That's where your Girl Scout badge in knot-tying is essential.


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Pancakes and head, in bed.

That's it.


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Pancakes and head, in bed.

That's it.


You get twice the use out of the syrup!


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or blindfolds, or handcuffs and blindfolds, and hot candle wax or melting ice that drips down onto your skin in cool drops that then has to be licked up by a warm tongue, and BDSM games and roleplaying and how did I forget dirty talk, and...

*Looks around*

What? Like I'm the only one.



theres at least two of us! Wink


I've also found that a neck scarf will do in a pinch. If you're looking for restraint without metal cuffs, may I recommend these?


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or blindfolds, or handcuffs and blindfolds, and hot candle wax or melting ice that drips down onto your skin in cool drops that then has to be licked up by a warm tongue, and BDSM games and roleplaying and how did I forget dirty talk, and...

*Looks around*

What? Like I'm the only one.



theres at least two of us! Wink


I've also found that a neck scarf will do in a pinch. If you're looking for restraint without metal cuffs, may I recommend these?


There's 3... and most likely more.

Also there's bondage tape. It's quite cool stuff - only sticks to itself! And, it's reusable.


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also Japanese rope bondage. very secure, and the ropes don't bite into your wrists (and wherever else you put them) as badly--I don't do pain in excess, partly because I don't like pain and partly because I find it to be a bit distracting. and you can do a hell of a lot more with the ropes than you can with handcuffs, ties, scarfs, etc.

also, I could not survive without dirty talk. if I have no supplies, there is still dirty talk.


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heee, i love this idea that just cos one is handcuffed one is helpless. some of the most fun i've had has been when i've been cuffed but COMPLETELY in charge. awesome fun.

and there's at least 4.


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I would like to not be in charge, but the husband needs a little guidance now and then. he's learning, though, and will someday make me a good dom. Razz


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heee, i love this idea that just cos one is handcuffed one is helpless. some of the most fun i've had has been when i've been cuffed but COMPLETELY in charge. awesome fun.


I know what you mean. Smile Seemingly being passive, while really feeling a sense of power, the feeling that you're not only "letting" the dominant party be that way, but satisfying them too ... by needing to be in control.

.... I think some of this might have to go in another thread.


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yep, i agree with tis on this. handcuffs are simply more practical than a tie, which always comes loose in the least appropriate moment. *grumbles*



tsk. That's where your Girl Scout badge in knot-tying is essential.


oh thats why you learn knot tying in girl scouts!

 and here i thought it was about selling cookies 


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It's a popular misconception Big Grin

What makes good sex good?

A good chunk of time with no kids banging on the door wanting something.


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I would like to not be in charge, but the husband needs a little guidance now and then. he's learning, though, and will someday make me a good dom. Razz


I think it's even better when you can switch back and forth...


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well, he likes...I guess having the feeling of ownership is the best way to put it. being able to have control and tell another person what to do. do whatever he wants. and I like being owned and taken care of and wanted that way.

(he's the youngest child in his family, and I'm the oldest in mine. can you tell?)

but switching off can be fun sometimes, too. being able to do things your way in your time and play the other person like a fiddle is very empowering.


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i've decided that the simplest answer is the best: a good partner makes good sex good. Smile


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A good whack on the hiney. Smile


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heee, i love this idea that just cos one is handcuffed one is helpless. some of the most fun i've had has been when i've been cuffed but COMPLETELY in charge. awesome fun.

and there's at least 4.


um. more than four. Smile and bondage tape sounds fun.





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more than four, indeed.

Old nylons can work well in a pinch (no pun intended). I like silky and soft, so I think the fur/satin cuffs can be fun in their own way. Like someone else said, pain can be distracting. A well placed bite, though, on one's shoulder...*shivers*

I think it's time for bed!


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