I feel I kinda need to step into defens eof anal sex here...
I mean, it does sound gross, but so does oral sex if you think about it. After all, you're licking and placing your noses right where the other person pees. And they might have wiped after their last pee (which might have not been that long ago), but, again, if you REALLY think about it, you wouldn't go near unless they had a shower and a scrub.
Anal sex, licking the anus or fingering it can be enjoyable for both parts, regardless of sex and orientation. It is about the tightness of it, but it's also just because it is just another very sensitive area that can feel nice when handled properly. I am not that crazy about sticking my finger into someone else's arse, but, once in action, there's nothing I love more than pleasuring my partner, and if that's what they like, I like that too.
(As for anal sex, a female very close to me has always maintained it's her best orgasm hands down.)

I know no one really meant the opposite, just it kind of bugged me how here and in the other thread there was people commenting that it was basically weird and gross, and no one really put a good word for it.

I dunno, but somehow I think it's really sweet (and no I don't mean this sarcastically or in a salacious way) for you (or any woman, for that matter) to speak up in defense of anal sex.

Heehee, especially considering I've never done it. My last 2 sexual partners have been very keen on doing it, and I've always wanted to try it, it just never happene dfor one or other reason.
But it's definitely something I'll do sooner or later, if my partner wants as well, coz, well, I'm open to anything in the bedroom provide dI trust my partner well enough. And, as I said, all sex is gross and disgusting when you think about it, so why not try this as well?

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Originally posted by cloverheart:
Heehee, especially considering I've never done it. My last 2 sexual partners have been very keen on doing it, and I've always wanted to try it, it just never happene dfor one or other reason.
But it's definitely something I'll do sooner or later, if my partner wants as well, coz, well, I'm open to anything in the bedroom provide dI trust my partner well enough. And, as I said, all sex is gross and disgusting when you think about it, so why not try this as well?

Cloverheart, prepare yourself for many interesting PMs...
Take care,
Fhionn

*has no qualms about admitting to it*

*thinks it's fun if you're in the right mood*

(i DO need to be in TOTALLY the right mood though)

I guess I'm just too tightarsed to try.

I don't think all the posts in either thread referred to just anal sex--at one point, at least, in the other thread the topic was diverted into the idea of women thinking they were weird/unlikeable (or feeling that they had to say or do certain things) if they didn't like certain things.

Now, note that I have never said what I do or don't or haven't done/enjoyed/tried in either thread (or any thread, really, which led to some very weird and unfounded assumptions way back when the last time I left the Board). The point I made is that people shouldn't feel *pressured* into trying things or doing things they don't find comfortable. There's a big difference between that and saying that I don't like or I dismiss certain acts personally.

There's a tendency on this Board--and I'm sure many others--to "prove" how open/sexual/liberal posters are. I personally feel that what I and past partners and now I and my husband do is between us, which does not mean that I'm either a prude or a whore. It means that I find it my and Merlin's (and my past bf's) business.

Equally, I think it's valid to discuss the fact that it's not weird for some people to find certain things distasteful, whether I like them or not. So that is where I, at least, was coming from.